What we do with ourselves or with our family or friends when death comes is important to some. I don’t think it is important to the ones who die but it is to those that are left behind. We need to be comfortable with the decision.

Why Broken Things Are Good For You | Sixty And…
When the bowl fell and broke into pieces, I felt shattered into pieces as well. The grief over this little broken object was shocking and completely inadequate. Yet it was real, and it was deep. Looking for answers, here’s what I found: 1. The Bowl Was a Symbol of Loss